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 Thanks for giving me a setting to share that, World!<ref>https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/80197-getting-the-urge-OUT-of-your-head-the-thread#104007</ref>
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	Thanks for giving me a setting to share that, World!<ref>https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/80197-getting-the-urge-OUT-of-your-head-the-thread#104007</ref>		Thanks for giving me a setting to share that, World!<ref>https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/80197-getting-the-urge-OUT-of-your-head-the-thread#104007</ref>
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-== '''On Pride...''' ==
+== On Pride... ==
 ...we may admit that we have so much pride, that others must be idiots, unworthy of our trouble, and unfairly demanding on us. We need desperately to learn how to ''connect'' and be ''useful'', rather than see everyone else as 'competition';
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 Go to it, man. And quit figuring it (you) all out. It is a waste of more time and just mental masturbation. In my experience.
-== You are thinking too much... ==
+=== You are thinking too much... ===
 Yeah. You are thinking too much, as you are always doing (if you are anything like me), and you are convinced that you need to 'understand' something in order to succeed at getting better.

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-Dear fellow GYEers,<br />
+[https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/124072-Dov-Quotes#124073 1. Captain Kirk]<br />* Nuclear Reset Button
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-Dov has some great posts, and it's hard to go around finding them when you need them.  I started to gather them under my "links" thread, but today I finally reached the max for the length of one post. (Apparently, the limit is 50,000 characters.)<br />
+Why we need "recovery" (not more eitzos)]<br />[https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/124072-Dov-Quotes#124124 2. Taking Responsibility to "Surrender"]<br />
 Self-Knowledge vs. Self-Honesty<br />
 On Meeting Real People<br />
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 Actions not Thoughts<br />
 You Are Thinking Too Much<br />
-Ratzon Alone is Not Enough]<br />
+Ratzon Alone is Not Enough<br />
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 [https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/124072-Dov-Quotes#124325 3. No Choice But to Stop… Now What???]<br />

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 My favorite tool for getting the thoughts out of my head is ignoring them. I have discovered that I really am the ba'al habos of my head...sometimes.
-If '''that''' does not work, I make sure to try and do the diametric ''opposite'' of whatever my lust is: Meaning, instead of worshipping or sexually devouring the person or image or whatever, I pause and pray (with actual spoken words, in private) '''''for''''' the person or instituion involved me'umka deliba as best I am able right then. Not for them to ''<nowiki/>'finally see the light and stop being so provocative or promiscuous''' - that judgementalism poisons me no matter how much my morality agrees with it. It is ''more'' than useless. Rather, I daven that Hashem should give them health and comfort in this life and whatever is afterward, and that He grant them a progressive awareness of Him and of all the good in their lives, and that He give them clarity in how all the good in their lives comes from Him, and that he even grants them acceptance that all the hard times they may have in their long futures is a ''gift'' from Him somehow, and that they also have peace of mind to really do right by themselves and by G-d. Then I may ask for all the same for me: Health, Comfort, Progressive awareness of Him in my life, and Peace of mind.
+If '''that'''<nowiki/>' does not work, I make sure to try and do the diametric opposite of whatever my lust is: Meaning, instead of worshipping or sexually devouring the person or image or whatever, I pause and pray (with actual spoken words, in private) for the person or instituion involved me'umka deliba as best I am able right then. Not for them to 'finally see the light and stop being so provocative or promiscuous` - that judgementalism poisons me no matter how much my morality agrees with it. It is ''more'' than useless. Rather, I daven that Hashem should give them health and comfort in this life and whatever is afterward, and that He grant them a progressive awareness of Him and of all the good in their lives, and that He give them clarity in how all the good in their lives comes from Him, and that he even grants them acceptance that all the hard times they may have in their long futures is a ''gift'' from Him somehow, and that they also have peace of mind to really do right by themselves and by G-d. Then I may ask for all the same for me: Health, Comfort, Progressive awareness of Him in my life, and Peace of mind.
 If '''that''' does not work - and sometimes even if it does - the best tool of all for me is to openly share all the dirty and stupid thoughts I tend to have with another safe person. I am careful to say it in a non-exciting way (no need to show off and splash dirt all over him, is there?) but still directly and truthfully - with Hashem's help.