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<p></p> <table class="diff diff-contentalign-left diff-editfont-monospace" data-mw="interface"> <col class="diff-marker" /> <col class="diff-content" /> <col class="diff-marker" /> <col class="diff-content" /> <tr class="diff-title" lang="en"> <td colspan="2" style="background-color: #fff; color: #202122; text-align: center;">← Older revision</td> <td colspan="2" style="background-color: #fff; color: #202122; text-align: center;">Revision as of 17:20, 26 November 2020</td> </tr><tr><td colspan="2" class="diff-lineno" id="mw-diff-left-l111" >Line 111:</td> <td colspan="2" class="diff-lineno">Line 111:</td></tr> <tr><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background-color: #f8f9fa; color: #202122; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #eaecf0; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"></td><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background-color: #f8f9fa; color: #202122; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #eaecf0; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"></td></tr> <tr><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background-color: #f8f9fa; color: #202122; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #eaecf0; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div>One other point as far as there are some interesting books to read.  There's a wealth of information on this.  Again, most of it is focused on the world of the sexual addiction.  Outside the ''frum'' world, pornography is only a problem if it's a sex addiction. In the ''frum'' world it's a problem even if it's a little bit, but there are some excellent books which people might not necessarily find they agree with completely but to at least be aware of it is helpful.  There are two points as far as these books are concerned.  Number one is that two of the three books I'm going to mention were written by people that themselves were sex addicts that recovered and they went on to help the world.  That itself is a phenomenal feeling.  The idea that people talk about their sexual addiction, the idea of being able to be ''modeh al haemes'' is such a tribute to these people that they are telling the world I struggled with it.  It's not something which they're happy about but what more of a way to help deal with the shame and guilt than being ''modeh al haemes? '' That's right, I did it, ''chatasi, avisi, pashati'' and now I'm going to be stronger.  It's a beautiful tribute to who they are and that's part of their ability to cure others'''.  The book that really broke open the world of sexual addiction is a book called ''Out of the Shadows'' by Patrick Carnes.''' '''Another book which was originally told to me by a person who is a phenomenal expert in sex addiction, a dear friend named Lew Abrams. He's a frum person who is an expert and a tremendous ''mentsch'' and a sincere person and a dear friend.'''  '''He referred this book to me originally.  It's a book named ''Sex Addiction 101'' by Robert Weiss.''' Robert Weiss also struggled with sex addiction and he's a ''talmid'' of Patrick Carnes.  It's a bit of a different flavor than Patrick Carnes but very, very readable and very helpful.  '''Another book that also was originally referred to me by Lew Abrams is a book called ''Facing Heartbreak. '' That's a book which was written by several people.  One of them is Stefanie Carnes.  Stefanie Carnes is Patrick Carnes' daughter and she jumped on the bandwagon to help him with his institute dealing with sex addiction.'''  ''Facing Heartbreak'' is a book that is a manual which is specifically written for spouses.  It's to help them deal with the discovery and the ensuing time of their spouse being involved in sex addiction.  It can be worthwhile for a spouse to read but it's also important for a first responder. It highlights many of the issues that spouses are going to deal with and just seeing what they assign as part of the worksheets can help a person see all the issues that they're going to deal with when they respond.  Those are three of the many books that can be very, very worthwhile for one's own edification.</div></td><td class='diff-marker'> </td><td style="background-color: #f8f9fa; color: #202122; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #eaecf0; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div>One other point as far as there are some interesting books to read.  There's a wealth of information on this.  Again, most of it is focused on the world of the sexual addiction.  Outside the ''frum'' world, pornography is only a problem if it's a sex addiction. In the ''frum'' world it's a problem even if it's a little bit, but there are some excellent books which people might not necessarily find they agree with completely but to at least be aware of it is helpful.  There are two points as far as these books are concerned.  Number one is that two of the three books I'm going to mention were written by people that themselves were sex addicts that recovered and they went on to help the world.  That itself is a phenomenal feeling.  The idea that people talk about their sexual addiction, the idea of being able to be ''modeh al haemes'' is such a tribute to these people that they are telling the world I struggled with it.  It's not something which they're happy about but what more of a way to help deal with the shame and guilt than being ''modeh al haemes? '' That's right, I did it, ''chatasi, avisi, pashati'' and now I'm going to be stronger.  It's a beautiful tribute to who they are and that's part of their ability to cure others'''.  The book that really broke open the world of sexual addiction is a book called ''Out of the Shadows'' by Patrick Carnes.''' '''Another book which was originally told to me by a person who is a phenomenal expert in sex addiction, a dear friend named Lew Abrams. He's a frum person who is an expert and a tremendous ''mentsch'' and a sincere person and a dear friend.'''  '''He referred this book to me originally.  It's a book named ''Sex Addiction 101'' by Robert Weiss.''' Robert Weiss also struggled with sex addiction and he's a ''talmid'' of Patrick Carnes.  It's a bit of a different flavor than Patrick Carnes but very, very readable and very helpful.  '''Another book that also was originally referred to me by Lew Abrams is a book called ''Facing Heartbreak. '' That's a book which was written by several people.  One of them is Stefanie Carnes.  Stefanie Carnes is Patrick Carnes' daughter and she jumped on the bandwagon to help him with his institute dealing with sex addiction.'''  ''Facing Heartbreak'' is a book that is a manual which is specifically written for spouses.  It's to help them deal with the discovery and the ensuing time of their spouse being involved in sex addiction.  It can be worthwhile for a spouse to read but it's also important for a first responder. It highlights many of the issues that spouses are going to deal with and just seeing what they assign as part of the worksheets can help a person see all the issues that they're going to deal with when they respond.  Those are three of the many books that can be very, very worthwhile for one's own edification.</div></td></tr> <tr><td colspan="2"> </td><td class='diff-marker'>+</td><td style="color: #202122; font-size: 88%; border-style: solid; border-width: 1px 1px 1px 4px; border-radius: 0.33em; border-color: #a3d3ff; vertical-align: top; white-space: pre-wrap;"><div><ins style="font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none;">[[Category:Interventions]]</ins></div></td></tr> </table>

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