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Transcriber: Maciek Sterkowicz Reviewer: Capa Girl
 
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Inspired by the last talker
 
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I'm going to have a little song about Internet porn.
 
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No, just kidding.
 
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The widespread use of Internet porn is one of the fastest moving
 
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most global experiments ever unconsciously conducted.
 
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Nearly every young guy with an Internet access
 
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becomes an eager test subject.
 
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Canadian researcher Simon Lajeunesse found
 
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that most boys seek pornography by age 10.
 
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Driven by a brain that is suddenly fascinated by sex.
 
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Now, users perceive Internet porn as far more compelling
 
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than porn of the past.
 
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Why is that?
 
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Unending novelty.
 
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In this Australian experiment,
 
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it's not mere nudity but novelty that gets arousals skyrocketing.
 
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Subjects watch 22 porn displays. See that spike?
 
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That's where the researchers switch to porn
 
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the guys hadn't seen before.
 
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What happened? Their erections and their brains fired up.
 
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Why all the excitement?
 
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Mother nature likes to keep a male fertilizing willing females
 
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as long as any new ones are around.
 
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In that top line the ram,
 
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he needs more and more time to make with the same old ewe.
 
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But if you keep switching females - the bottom line - well she's not the same.
 
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He can get the job done in 2 minutes flat
 
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and keep going until he's utterly exhausted.
 
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This is known as the Coolidge effect.
 
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Without the Coolidge effect there would be no Internet porn.
 
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This old mammalian program, the Coolidge effect, perceives
 
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each novel female on a guy's screen as a genetic opportunity.
 
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To keep a guy fertilizing the screen his brain releases
 
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the "go get it" neurochemical dopamine for each novel mate or image.
 
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Eventually the ram will tire
 
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but as long as the guy can keep clicking
 
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he can keep going and so will his dopamine.
 
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With internet porn a guy can see more hot babes in 10 minutes
 
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than his ancestors could see in several lifetimes.
 
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The problem is he has a hunter-gather brain.
 
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A heavy user brain rewires itself to this genetic bonanza
 
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so it carefully becomes associated with this porn harem.
 
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Such behaviours that are associated with this are being alone,
 
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voyeurism, clicking, searching, multiple tabs
 
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fast-forwarding, constant novelty, shock and surprise.
 
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As one young guy once asked:
 
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Are we the first generation to masturbate left handed?
 
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Now, real sex, in contrast, is courtship, touching,
 
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being touched, smells, pheromones, emotional connection,
 
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interaction with a real person.
 
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Now, what happens when our guy finally gets with a real mate.
 
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Well, researchers don't know much about the effects
 
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of Internet porn for several reasons.
 
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In 2009, when Lajeunesse tried to study porn'’s impact
 
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he couldn't find any college age males who weren't using it.
 
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So the first serious dilemma is that studies have no control groups.
 
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Now, this creates a huge blind spot.
 
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Imagine if all guys started smoking at age 10
 
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and there were no groups that didn't.
 
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We would think that lung cancer is normal for all guys.
 
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Undaunted by his lack of non-users Lajeunesse asked 20 male students:
 
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Is Internet porn affecting you or your attitude towards women?
 
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They answered, "No, I don't think so."
 
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But they've been using it for about a decade then
 
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pretty much non-stop.
 
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This is like asking a fish what it thinks about water?
 
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Which bring us to a second problem.
 
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Researchers haven't asked porn users about the symptoms
 
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Zimbardo described in "The Demise of Guys."
 
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Arousal addiction symptoms are easily mistaken
 
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for such things as ADHD, social anxiety, depression,
 
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concentration problems, performance anxiety,
 
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OCD and a host of others.
 
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Now, healthcare providers often assume that these conditions are primary
 
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perhaps the cause of addiction but never really the result of an addiction.
 
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As a consequence they often medicate these guys
 
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without really inquiring about if they have an Internet addiction.
 
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Guys never realise that they could overcome these
 
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symptoms simply by changing their behaviour.
 
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Now, the third problem is it's hard to believe that
 
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sexual activity can cause addiction because sex is healthy.
 
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But Internet porn is not sex.
 
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Internet porn is as different from real sex
 
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as today’s video games are from checkers.
 
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Watching the screen full of naked body parts
 
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won't automatically protect one from arousal addiction.
 
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In this Dutch study - here's the title -
 
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they found that in fact of all activities on the Internet
 
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porn has the most potential to become addictive.
 
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Here's why.
 
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This ancient programme, the reward circuit,
 
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evolved to drive us towards natural rewards
 
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such as sex, bonding and food.
 
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As a consequence extreme versions of natural rewards
 
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have a unique ability to capture us.
 
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For example: high-calorie foods or hot novel babes
 
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give us extra dopamine.
 
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Too much dopamine though can override our natural satiation mechanisms.
 
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For example: give rats unlimited access
 
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to junk food and almost all of them will binge to obesity.
 
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This is also why 4 out of 5 Americans are overweight
 
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and about half of those are obese.
 
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That is addicted to food.
 
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Now, in contrast to natural rewards, drugs such as
 
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cocaine or alcohol only hook about 10% of users
 
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whether they are rats or humans.
 
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This binge mechanism for food or sex was once an evolutionary advantage.
 
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In essence, it is getting it while the getting is good.
 
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Now, you can think of wolves packing away 20 pound of meat per kill
 
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or it's mating season and you're the alpha male.
 
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What if mating season never ends?
 
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All those hits of dopamine can tell your brain to do two things.
 
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First they say, "Man, you've hit the evolutionary jackpot."
 
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Second, they kick in a molecular switch called Delta-FosB.
 
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I know it is a fancy word, but dopamine kicks in Delta-FosB
 
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and that starts to accumulate in the brain's reward circuit.
 
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Now, with excess chronic consumption of drugs or natural rewards,
 
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this build up a Delta-FosB starts to alter the brain
 
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and promotes the cycle of binging and craving.
 
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If the binging continues the Delta-FosB builds up
 
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and it can lead to brain changes seen in all addicts.
 
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So the dominos are excess consumption
 
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excess dopamine, Delta-FosB, brain changes.
 
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One of the first changes is a numbed pleasure response.
 
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It kicks in, and so everyday pleasures really don't satisfy a porn addict.
 
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At the same time other physical changes in the brain
 
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make the brain hyper-reactive to porn.
 
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Everything else in the porn user's life is sort of boring,
 
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but porn is super exciting.
 
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Finally his willpower erodes as his frontal cortex changes.
 
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I can't emphasize this enough.
 
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All addictions share these same brain changes
 
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and the same molecular switch that kicks them in - Delta-FosB.
 
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Now scientists have used brain scans to measure
 
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these changes in drug addicts.
 
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Up-here these scans show a reduced pleasure response in drug addicts.
 
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These and several other changes have also been seen in gambling addicts,
 
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food addicts, very recently in video game addicts
 
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and now in internet addicts.
 
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I apologize for filling up the slide with brain studies.
 
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Just notice the dates.
 
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But I want you to know that they exist.
 
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So far all brain research points only in one direction.
 
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Constant novelty at the click can cause addiction.
 
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We know this because when scientist examined
 
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former Internet addicts they found
 
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that these brain changes were reversing themselves.
 
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Unfortunately, none of these studies isolate porn users,
 
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but they do include them.
 
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Here's the game changer.
 
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At last we have a group of guys who are no longer using Internet porn.
 
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That's right! Heavy users are voluntarily giving it up by the thousands.
 
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These guys are the missing control group in the great porn experiment.
 
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They're showing experts what changing one single variable can do.
 
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I call it "The Resurrection of Guys" as opposed to "the Demise of Guys."
 
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Now, before I continue probably you wanna know
 
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why any porn loving guy in his right mind would give it up.
 
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Two words: erectile dysfunction.
 
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Internet porn is killing young men's sexual performance.
 
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Now, Zimbardo said young guys are flaming out with women,
 
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this survey by Italian neurologists confirms
 
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what we have witnessed over the last few years.
 
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Sexual enhancement drugs often stop working for these guys,
 
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if they ever did,
 
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because the problem isn’'t below the belt where viagra works.
 
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Nor is their problem really psychological.
 
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It's due to physical changes in the brain.
 
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Those addiction related changes.
 
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Their numb brains are sending weaker and weaker signals to their bananas.
 
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(Laughter)
 
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As doctor Foresta says, "It starts with lower reactions to porn sites.
 
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Then there is a general drop in libido,
 
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and in the end it becomes impossible to get an erection.
 
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There are 3 take-aways from this.
 
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First, Foresta is describing a classic addiction process -
 
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gradual desensitization.
 
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Second, Internet porn is qualitatively different from Playboy.
 
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Widespread youthful ED has never been seen before.
 
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And finally ED is often the only symptom that gets these guys' attention.
 
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The question is what less obvious symptoms are they missing?
 
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Most don't figure that out until after they quit.
 
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Here's a guy in his late 20s.
 
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"I've been to psychologists and psychiatrists for the last 8 years...
 
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have been diagnosed with depression, severe social anxiety,
 
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severe memory impairment and a few others.
 
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Have tried Fexer, Ritalin, Xanax, Paxil
 
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dropped out at two different colleges, been fired twice,
 
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used pot to calm my social anxiety.
 
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I've been approached by quite a few women
 
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I guess due to my looks and status
 
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but they quickly flew away due to my incredible weirdness.
 
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I've been a hardcore porn addict since age 14.
 
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For the last 2 years I've been experimenting
 
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and finally realised that porn was an issue.
 
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I stopped it completely 2 months ago.
 
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It has been very difficult but so far incredibly worth it.
 
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I've since quit my remaining medication.
 
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My anxiety is nonexistent.
 
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My memory and focus are sharper than they've ever been.
 
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I feel like a huge "chick magnet" and my ED is gone too.
 
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I seriously think I had a rebirth, a second chance at life."
 
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This is why pockets of guys are peering all over the web - body building sites,
 
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sports sites, pickup artists sites - wherever men congregate.
 
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In essence, they are seeking a neurochemical rebirth.
 
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Here's a group on reddit.com who call themselves "Fapstronauts."
 
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Fapping is slang for solo sex,
 
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but what they really mean is giving up porn.
 
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They've added about 2,000 members since I captured this picture a month ago.
 
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This movement to unhook from porn is growing rapidly.
 
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In fact, groups are springing up all across the web and in Europe too.
 
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But there is a bizarre fly in the ointment.
 
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Guys in the early 20s aren't regaining
 
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their erectile health as quickly as older guys.
 
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How can a 50-year-old get his mojo back quicker then a 20-something?
 
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The answer, even though older guys have been using porn a whole lot longer
 
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they didn't start on today’'s Internet porn.
 
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Now, we know this is a key variable because
 
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the older guys didn'’t start having sexual problems
 
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until after they got high-speed Internet. (Laughter)
 
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Now, today'’s young teens start on high-speed Internet
 
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when their brains are at their peak
 
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of dopamine production and neuroplasticity.
 
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This is also when they are the most vulnerable to addiction,
 
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but there is another risk.
 
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By adulthood teens strengthen heavily used circuits
 
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and prune back unused ones.
 
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So, by age 22 or so a guy's sexual taste can be like deep ruts in his brain.
 
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This can cause panic if a guy has escalated to extreme porn
 
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or porn that no longer matches his sexual orientation.
 
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Fortunately brains are plastic
 
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so his taste can revert once he quits porn.
 
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As a guy returns to normal sensitivity
 
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his brain looks around for the rewards it evolved to see
 
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such as friendly interaction and of course real mates.
 
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Here's one more example of what we hear everyday,
 
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"I feel like the next Sir Isaac Newton or Leonardo da Vinci.
 
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Since I quit a month ago, I've literally:
 
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started a business, taken up piano, been studying French every day,
 
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been programming, drawing, writing, started managing my finances
 
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and I have more awesome ideas than I know what to do with.
 
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My confidence is sky-high.
 
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I already feel like I can talk to any girl!
 
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I am the same guy who took 2,5 extra years to graduate from college
 
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because of procrastination and depression."
 
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I'll conclude with a wish:
 
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I'd like to see Zimbardo's guys
 
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who are wiping out and their caregivers and the experts
 
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listen to the thousands of men who are teaching us
 
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about arousal addiction by escaping it.
 
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Thanks for listening.
 
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(Applause)
 

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