Early Warning System

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Develop an early warning habit. Learn to recognize the urge when it first comes calling. Discover your earliest red flag signals. Don’t be caught off guard. Nipping temptation in the bud is easier than stopping it when it’s got a full head of steam. SMART Recovery, the "Awareness" part of the DISARM Method.[1]

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Nip it in the bud

ראה בזה בוהאר עיננו עמ' עט-פ ע"פ קונ' ושמרו דרך ה' עמ' כג עיי"ש.

#wilnevergiveup: Someone wrote "it feels like I am turning in the whirlpool of a toilet being flushed, you know where you are going to end up and there is little to do to stop it." When this happens, I need to grab onto something before it's too late. The hard part is that when we are turning in the toilet it's very hard to stop and think. I don't really have a good strategy for this and in the passed when I ended up this far I haven't been able to climb out. I guess the trick is not to end up here. The main idea here is to nip it as early as you can. We all fall into the trap of "if I give in a little, it will leave me alone for a while". I don't really know why after all this time we still fall for it...  I don't know anyone who fell who didn't first give in a little. On the other hand, anyone who succeeds does so by saying no.[2]