Getting Caught

Further reading

• I found out my father is looking at shmutz. What can I do?

Stories

• A person told that he was caught by his wife right before she had a baby. She was so mad that she told her whole family about it (parents, siblings etc.)... Then after delivering the baby he had to stay by his in laws, eat meals together with them... and make believe everything is normal so that the other kids wouldn't notice. It was a disaster. Even now a few years later he's embarrassed to look at them in the eye, they see him as a porn addict... no matter how much progress he made since then.
• A teen wrote to us: "Somehow I just found out that my father has in the past six weeks been viewing inappropriate stuff online. This is very unexpected. What can I do about It? I cant confront my father about it. Should I tell my mother she will be devastated? What am I supposed to do with this knowledge? I want this to be resolved before it becomes a more serious problem."
  • Can you imagine what damage this does to his chinuch?