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 * 12-Step fellowships ''Hall, Paula. Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction (p. 173). Taylor and Francis. Kindle Edition.''
 ** Project CHOICE as explained in that book could be a good model. See also ''Hall et al., 2020, UK''.
-* THE TWELVE-STEPS ''Weiss, Douglas. Sex Addiction: 6 Types and Treatment (p. 71). Discovery Press. Kindle Edition.''  (Has a nice interpetation)
+* THE TWELVE-STEPS ''Weiss, Douglas. Sex Addiction: 6 Types and Treatment (p. 71). Discovery Press. Kindle Edition.''  (Has a nice interpretation)
 == From GYE Members ==

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 * 12-Step fellowships ''Hall, Paula. Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction (p. 173). Taylor and Francis. Kindle Edition.''
 ** Project CHOICE as explained in that book could be a good model. See also ''Hall et al., 2020, UK''.
 == From GYE Members ==

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	Because I am a Jew though, after I started to gain sanity and some freedom from the compulsive acting out and lust-thinking, I was able to start growing, thank G- d, into the Jewish man that Hashem wants me to be. And the steps are a tool that I use to stay on that path now as well, one day at a time.</blockquote>		Because I am a Jew though, after I started to gain sanity and some freedom from the compulsive acting out and lust-thinking, I was able to start growing, thank G- d, into the Jewish man that Hashem wants me to be. And the steps are a tool that I use to stay on that path now as well, one day at a time.</blockquote>
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		+	== References ==
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		+	* Efrati, Y., & Gola, M. (2018). Treating Compulsive Sexual Behavior. Current Sexual Health Reports, 10(2), 57–64. <nowiki>https://doi.org/10.1007/s11930-018-0143-8</nowiki> (Efficacy)
		+	** There are currently studies in progress investigating the efficacy of 12-step programs for CSB treatment, and some therapists have adopted many of the 12-step principles in their treatment methods [9<ref>Carnes P, Green B, Carnes S. The same yet different: refocusing the Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST) to reflect orientation and gender. Sex Addict Compulsivity. 2010;17:7–30.</ref>, 61<ref>Carnes P. Recovery start kit. Carefree, AZ: Gentle Path; 2008.</ref>, 71•<ref>Carnes P. Don’t call it love: recovery from sexual addiction. New York: Bantam; 1992. '''Comprehensive qualitative description of clinical cases with compulsive sexual behaviors'''.</ref>, 72•<ref>Bostwick JM, Bucci JA. Internet sex addiction treated with naltrexone. Mayo Clin Proc. 2008;83(2):226–30. <nowiki>https://doi.org/10.4065/</nowiki> 83.2.226. '''First case study on naltrexone use for compulsive sexual behavior treatment'''.</ref>, 73<ref>GolaM, SkorkoM, Kowalewska E, Kołodziej A, Sikora M,Wodyk M, et al. Polish adaptation of sexual addiction screening test - revised. Psychiatr Pol. 2017;51(1):95–115.</ref>].

	== Further Reading ==		== Further Reading ==

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 * Some Thoughts on the 12-Step Approach ''DuFrene, Troy; Wilson, Kelly. The Wisdom to Know the Difference: An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Workbook for Overcoming Substance Abuse (New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook) (p. 157). New Harbinger Publications, Inc.. Kindle Edition.'' (Calms a lot of fears about the 12-step approach)
 ** Table 14.1 - SAA 12-Step program [Simplified] Hall, Paula. Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction (p. 175). Taylor and Francis. Kindle Edition.
 * 12-Step fellowships ''Hall, Paula. Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction (p. 173). Taylor and Francis. Kindle Edition.''
 == From GYE Members ==

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 * https://guardyoureyes.com/articles/12-step/category/12-step
 * Some Thoughts on the 12-Step Approach ''DuFrene, Troy; Wilson, Kelly. The Wisdom to Know the Difference: An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Workbook for Overcoming Substance Abuse (New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook) (p. 157). New Harbinger Publications, Inc.. Kindle Edition.'' (Calms a lot of fears about the 12-step approach)
 * 12-Step fellowships ''Hall, Paula. Understanding and Treating Sex and Pornography Addiction (p. 173). Taylor and Francis. Kindle Edition.''

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	* https://guardyoureyes.com/articles/12-step/category/12-step		* https://guardyoureyes.com/articles/12-step/category/12-step
		+	* Some Thoughts on the 12-Step Approach ''DuFrene, Troy; Wilson, Kelly. The Wisdom to Know the Difference: An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy Workbook for Overcoming Substance Abuse (New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook) (p. 157). New Harbinger Publications, Inc.. Kindle Edition.'' (Calms a lot of fears about the 12-step approach)

	== From GYE Members ==		== From GYE Members ==

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	* Just want to share some experience that before I attended a live meeting I also thought the world would come to an end when I walked in. Maybe I would know someone (I did:) ), maybe someone would know me, I would be mortified exposed etc. When I reached a point where I had to and went to my first SA meeting all I found was acceptance, caring, and people who related to me and I related to them 100% (ok and the occasional kvetch). It was scary in the beginning but is now the most natural thing in the world for me. And after about 16 years of struggling and just wanting to get sober or die I'm now sober with the help of SA almost 2 years. Point being for me it was one of the last lies I told myself that going to SA would be impossible when in reality it is the best most accepting place for me. And for me the only place I was able to recover. [https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/332710-A-struggling-bochur?limit=15&start=405#342685 @jake08]		* Just want to share some experience that before I attended a live meeting I also thought the world would come to an end when I walked in. Maybe I would know someone (I did:) ), maybe someone would know me, I would be mortified exposed etc. When I reached a point where I had to and went to my first SA meeting all I found was acceptance, caring, and people who related to me and I related to them 100% (ok and the occasional kvetch). It was scary in the beginning but is now the most natural thing in the world for me. And after about 16 years of struggling and just wanting to get sober or die I'm now sober with the help of SA almost 2 years. Point being for me it was one of the last lies I told myself that going to SA would be impossible when in reality it is the best most accepting place for me. And for me the only place I was able to recover. [https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/332710-A-struggling-bochur?limit=15&start=405#342685 @jake08]
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 Because I am a Jew though, after I started to gain sanity and some freedom from the compulsive acting out and lust-thinking, I was able to start growing, thank G-  d, into the Jewish man that  Hashem wants me to be. And the steps are a tool  that I use to stay on that path now as well, one day at a time.</blockquote>
 == From GYE Members ==
 * Just want to share some experience that before I attended a live meeting I also thought the world would come to an end when I walked in. Maybe I would know someone (I did:) ), maybe someone would know me, I would be mortified exposed etc. When I reached a point where I had to and went to my first SA meeting all I found was acceptance, caring, and people who related to me and I related to them 100% (ok and the occasional kvetch). It was scary in the beginning but is now the most natural thing in the world for me. And after about 16 years of struggling and just wanting to get sober or die I'm now sober with the help of SA almost 2 years.  Point being for me it was one of the last lies I told myself that going to SA would be impossible when in reality it is the best most accepting place for me. And for me the only place I was able to recover. [https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/332710-A-struggling-bochur?limit=15&start=405#342685 @jake08]

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 Even if the group meetings are held in side rooms of a church building, Rav Shmuel Kaminetsky rules that the behaviors we are trying to break free of are by far more severe, and one should not hesitate to join a 12-Step group because of this (barring the main sanctuary).
-<!-- Should we mention this? Ask Sylky -->For spouses of addicts, there are S-Anon and CODA groups in many cities, where the spouse (usually the wife) learn how to live with an  addict.  These groups are very helpful for spouses, and besides for learning to understand the nature of addiction, they also receive much needed guidance and support. GYE has special CODA and S-Anon phone conferences for spouses as well. Contact us for more info.
+* See also https://guardyoureyes.com/articles/12-step/item/is-it-permissible-to-enter-a-church-to-attend-a-12-step-meeting. <!-- Should we mention this? Ask Sylky -->
 === Dov’s Story ===